让我设身处地,说几句话给你听听,也许可以帮助这一对恋人,使他们能够得到你的欢心。
眼看希望幻灭,恶运临头,
无可挽回,何必满腹牢愁?
为了既成的灾祸而痛苦,
徒然招惹出更多的灾祸。
既不能和命运争强斗胜,
还是付之一笑,安心耐忍。
聪明人遭盗窃毫不介意;
痛哭流涕反而伤害自己。
Let me refer to a proverb that may help you forgive these lovers: if you can’t change something, don’t cry about it. When you lament something bad that’s already happened, you’re setting yourself up for more bad news. A robbery victim who can smile about his losses is superior to the thief who robbed him, but if he cries he’s just wasting time.