
作为剩女的我,过去总是在不断地换恋爱对象,总是希望别人是完美的,不肯自我改变;不愿深入发展,稍有不顺心就放弃;总是在挑剔对方,而不是欣赏对方;总是对对方期望值过高;总想坐享其成,把人生的幸福快乐寄托在别人身上……所以我一直找不到我想要的幸福。
现在我明白,人没有完美的,接受对方优点的同时,我也要接受他的全部,包括缺点。快乐幸福的人生,不是靠别人给的,是自己给自己的,自己要对自己的幸福快乐负责,这些都是要不断地完善自己,成长爱的能力才能获得的。
一块上进的铁才会带有磁性

chapter1 the prison door
A throng of bearded men, in sad–coloured garments and grey steeple–crowned hats, inter–mixed with women, some wearing hoods, and others bareheaded, was assembled in front of a wooden edifice, the door of which was heavily timbered with oak, and studded with iron spikes.
The founders of a new colony, whatever Utopia of human virtue and happiness they might originally project, have invariably recognized it among their earliest practical necessities to allot a portion of the virgin soil as a cemetery, and another portion as the site of a prison. In accordance with this rule it may safely be assumed that the forefathers of Boston had built the first prison–house somewhere in the Vicinity of Cornhill, almost as seasonably as they marked out the first burial–ground, on Isaac Johnson’s lot, and round about his grave, which subsequently became the nucleus of all the congregated sepulchres in the old churchyard of King’s Chapel. Certain it is that, some fifteen or twenty years after the settlement of the town, the wooden jail was already marked with weather–stains and other indications of age, which gave a yet darker aspect to its beetle–browed and gloomy front. The rust on the ponderous iron–work of its oaken door looked more antique than anything else in the New World. Like all that pertains to crime, it seemed never to have known a youthful era. Before this ugly edifice, and between it and the wheel–track of the street, was a grass–plot, much overgrown with burdock, pig–weed, apple–pern, and such unsightly vegetation, which evidently found something congenial in the soil that had so early borne the black flower of civilised society, a prison. But on one side of the portal, and rooted almost at the threshold, was a wild rose–bush, covered, in this month of June, with its delicate gems, which might be imagined to offer their fragrance and fragile beauty to the prisoner as he went in, and to the condemned criminal as he came forth to his doom, in token that the deep heart of Nature could pity and be kind to him.
This rose–bush, by a strange chance, has been kept alive in history; but whether it had merely survived out of the stern old wilderness, so long after the fall of the gigantic pines and oaks that originally overshadowed it, or whether, as there is far authority for believing, it had sprung up under the footsteps of the sainted Ann Hutchinson as she entered the prison–door, we shall not take upon us to determine. Finding it so directly on the threshold of our narrative, which is now about to issue from that inauspicious portal, we could hardly do otherwise than pluck one of its flowers, and present it to the reader. It may serve, let us hope, to symbolise some sweet moral blossom that may be found along the track, or relieve the darkening close of a tale of human frailty and sorrow.

说我和她没干系,
原不过像两片落叶,
今天偶尔吹在一起,
谁保得明朝不要分离;
犯着去打听人家的细底?
但你说奇不,她到东或西,
像太阳的昏暗月亮的缺,
总是那般的使我,
比自己的事更关切,更留意。
说,这是自己的愿,不是勉强,
帮她的忙,为她提只箱;
或者问一问天会不会下雨,
路上有没有风浪。
但要是她真的说出了这话:
“谢谢你,用不着先生——
这样关切,这样忙,”
怕我又会像挨近了绝崖般,
一万分的失神,一万分的慌张。
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高警官来玫瑰园的目的,就是十年前的案件,也许更具体的就是为了当时的死者。

“最严重的创口在上唇。”阿曼德说,“冲击力让你的上唇裂成两半,从人中裂开。不过别担心,整容医师帮你缝好了,他们认为你会恢复得很好,不过那儿会有道伤痕。这可避免不了。”
讽刺的意义, hassan曾经的兔唇也被治好了,但是还是留下来伤痕

深藏心底的,是对文字至深的爱。
只是,相逢恨晚。
想,拥一本旧书,深夜温读;想,泡一壶咖啡,慢慢品味,人世间的美好,就是如此简单。
只是,现实总不能忽视。
眼前的苟且,是为了远方的梦。
晚安。

感觉姑姑和沈华起有奸情。。。

“有虞”、“陶唐”说的是五帝里面的最后两位,有虞是舜帝,姓姚,名重华,号有虞氏,故人们称他为虞舜。陶唐指尧帝,他姓伊祁,号放勋,因为他的封地在陶和唐(今天的山东一带),所以叫他唐尧。
尧是帝喾之子,黄帝的玄孙,由于他德高望重,人民倾心于帝尧。他严肃恭谨,光照四方,能团结族人,使邦族之间和睦相处。尧为人简朴,住的是茅草屋,门前是土垫的台阶,吃粗米饭,穿麻布衣,喝野菜汤,得到人民的拥戴。
尧在位七十几年,到年老时,由四岳十二牧推举继承人,大家一致推荐了舜。尧帝把自己两个女儿嫁给了舜,又对他进行了长期的考察,最后才放心地把君位禅让给了舜,死时118岁。
舜是颛顼一脉的子孙,他宽厚待人,孝顺父母,慈爱[...]
唐尧、虞舜英明无私,主动把君位禅让给功臣贤人。

张爱玲还记得,小时候见到父亲屋里到处乱摊着各式小报,让她有一种回家的感觉。此后张爱玲喜欢读市井小报,也是受到父亲的影响。乃至她对《红楼梦》、《三国演义》的兴趣,也是源自于父亲。她甚至在很小的时候,就能感知父亲内心那种无所适从的寂寞。她说,父亲的房间里永远是下午,在那里坐久了便觉得沉下去,沉下去。
张爱玲的生平,受父亲影响

原来母亲是开启孩子世界的金钥匙。优秀的教育者真该多生几个儿女,就像石医生说龙应台。多么会教养的母亲。

后来才知道,曾经许诺了地老天荒的人,有一天会分道扬镳;曾经说好了永不相见的人,有一天会不期而遇。缘分这条河流,从容飘荡,从来就不是你我所能把握的。张爱玲说过:于千万人之中遇见你所要遇见的人,于千万年之中,时间的无涯的荒野里,没有早一步,也没有晚一步,刚巧赶上了,那也没有别的话可说,唯有轻轻地问一声:“噢,你也在这里吗?”你也在这里吗?谁曾有幸,被这一声婉转的询问,绊住了即将远行的步履。在恍惚的幸福中,做短暂的停留。原以为,这位穿过民国烟雨的惊世才女,无需在情感的路上依附于任何人。可她在熙攘人流中,还是为了一个陌生背影,转身回首。她终是俗世女子,渴望一个人可以用温情填满她凄凉的内心,从此与之烟火[...]
好句好句好句好句好句

那年梅花,已不知遗落在谁的墙院下,老了青砖,湿了黛瓦。
好句
好句
好句好句

见猎心喜(十个字符给你)

正说之时,周淳已从外面走进来。燕儿连忙垂手侍立。英琼便过来拜见世叔。李宁道:“恭喜贤弟,你收得这样的好徒弟。”周淳道:“此子天分倒也聪明,禀赋也是不差,就是张口爱说,见了人兀自不停
前文的不合适的啰嗦或者是其他不符常理的原因,后文可以解释一下,做合理化

小世兄也是可以的,晚辈之间的称呼
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